One thing I’ve learned during my travels is always ask questions! People take pride in explaining their traditions and doing a regular thing in a new way can be fun!
Long before I married Mr. Jim, my mother and I spent a few days in Tokyo, Japan. We visited friends and stayed at their house. I didn’t ask questions and ended up doing something really silly.
I took a bath. Here is what I did:
• Hopped in the tub.
• Soaped myself up.
• Sang "I've Been Working on the Railroad" at the top of my lungs.
• Shampooed my hair.
• Slunk under the water.
• Wiggled around to get all the suds off.
• Hopped out of the tub
• Drained the tub.
That is officially the WRONG way to take a bath in Japan. I should have asked why there was a lid on the tub…..and why it was already filled with warm water…..

In Japan, the bathroom is separate from the rest of the ‘facilities’. It is a small room with a large, deep tub, and beside it a small stool, a wash bucket and a hand-held shower head. All soaping takes place outside of the tub. The tub is a place to relax. The tub water is kept very clean and used several times.
Here is the right way to take a bath in Japan:
• Lather up outside of the tub on the stool.
• Wash away the soap and shampoo using the hand-held shower head.
• Get in the tub. No soap allowed!
• Get down really deep so the water goes up to your neck
• Think peaceful, relaxing thoughts
• Do your best to look like the snow monkey in the last post.
• Get out of the tub
• DO NOT DRAIN THE TUB
• Go tell your brother it is his turn.
So, the moral of this story is: never be afraid to ask questions about differences in culture. Respect and appreciate those differences. (Some other time I’ll tell you the silly thing I did at the Japanese department store…)